Once you’ve succeeded in turning your sales presentation from a one-way monologue into an engaging discussion, the key is how to start moving the discussion—and your prospect—in the desired direction. This begins with a process that, without being too touchy-feely, we call Empathy 101. As you’ll see here and in the next two blogs, this is a three-part process.
Step One in the Empathy Process is to show your understanding of the overall market that their company—and they—are involved in. NOTE: You’re not trying to create the impression that you know their industry or market better than they do, just that you know enough about the space to be offering an industry-specific solution, not a generic one.
Again, the goal is to make this as interactive a conversation as possible. So, even though you’re trying to show your knowledge of their industry and the issues and problems it faces (we call this part of the process “you’re screwed”), you also want to create openings for the prospect to jump in. Ideally, they’re going to be nodding at the issues you raise, but then stop you. “You don’t know the half of it,” they say in an ideal situation, and then they set the table for you by taking the conversation deeper.
One last note: In all three phases of the Empathy process, NEVER mention your company or solution. Back to Rule #2… This is still about them. We’ll get to you later.
Tip #4A: Begin the Empathy 101 Process by Demonstrating Your Knowledge of Their Industry/Market

The foundation of our work with tech startups is the positioning workshop we lead with the leadership team at the beginning of our engagement. That workshop takes place over several sessions with the startup team and is a process of discovery, discussion, compromise and consensus that yields real gold and serves as the bedrock for the development and implementation of the marketing plan. But one observation we have about positioning is that it’s not fixed. Or permanent. Let me explain…
Every naming agency and marketeer involved with startups is regularly challenged to find a name that can build a lasting brand. But the secret wish of every marketeer today is to find a name that catapults the brand above the noise and into the Twittersphere. And unfortunately for the beef industry, “pink slime” has done just that.
Whether you’re a B2C or a B2B, there’s a startup marketing ‘checklist’ that we recommend you follow when you’re shopping for a PR agency. Over the next two posts, we’ll be talking about the top 6 areas you should be evaluating, starting with these three:
Previously, we talked about the first two steps to building a killer sales presentation:
A favorite part of the Positioning-Messaging-Branding (PMB) workshop we conduct with startup founders is the branding exercise. For founders, this is about expressing the qualities, aspirations and values of their startup in a way that can be translated into the words, design aesthetics and qualities (like boldness, approachability, responsiveness, etc.) that will be carried through their marketing and embodied in their culture. Defining those brand qualities can become almost a mini therapy session for founders.
Creeping – whether you call it low-buzz stalking, cyberstalking or the unsettling new term “